Oh, and one more thing. Could you get a LJ account so I know for certain who I am talking to? I feel like I am talking to a stranger when I am talking to "anonymous", but I am obviously not talking to an anonymous stranger. Unless you want to hide who you are. But my discernment says that isn't the case in this situation.

That's because you and I would both hate a "friend" who copped out behind the mask of anonymity to criticize us.